Fat is not a swear word

How often has someone called one fat as an insult. It is so rude.This is what society has created. That the fat person should laugh it off. Fat people also have feelings sometimes they are so deeply  covered up. As a previously fat person I only know it too well. I constantly now have to remind myself I am a previously fat person and am now thin, as I have thought fat all my life.

For a person who has never been fat its hard to understand being fat. It was my head that was fat even before the body got fat. That the head constantly thinks fat, it is taking longer for my head to catch up that I am NOT FAT anymore. I am a slim person.


I am stil so convinced that the fat is related to unexpressed emotions and hidden issues. I write about it in my book Emotional Fat ( www. emotionafat.com)

A friend of mine started to connect with a man recently only on a platonic level. However there was a lot of hidden agendas in the meetings. From the first day of meeting him she started to gain weight, only a 100gm a day. Three months lates she ended the connection after putting on a considerable amount of weight. Immediately her weight started to shift back to her right size. Which goes to show my point that fat is related to hidden, emotions. agendas, disappointments, fears,karma and not to food.

I picked this up on facebook and love it.

IT'S LIFE

A while back, at the entrance of a gym, there was a picture of a very thin and beautiful woman. The caption was "This summer, do you want to be a mermaid or a whale?"

The story goes, a woman (of clothing size unknown) answered the following way: 

"Dear people, whales are always surrounded by friends (dolphins, seals, curious humans), they are sexually active and raise their children with great tenderness.

They entertain like crazy with dolphins and eat lots of prawns. They swim all day and travel to fantastic places like Patagonia, the Barents Sea or the coral reefs of Polynesia.

They sing incredibly well and sometimes even are on cds. They are impressive and dearly loved animals, which everyone defend and admires.

Mermaids do not exist.

But if they existed, they would line up to see a psychologist because of a problem of split personality: woman or fish? 

They would have no sex life and could not bear children.

Yes, they would be lovely, but lonely and sad.

And, who wants a girl that smells like fish by his side?

Without a doubt, I'd rather be a whale.

At a time when the media tells us that only thin is beautiful, I prefer to eat ice cream with my kids, to have dinner with my husband, to eat and drink and have fun with my friends.

We women, we gain weight because we accumulate so much wisdom and knowledge that there isn't enough space in our heads, and it spreads all over our bodies.

We are not fat, we are greatly cultivated.

Every time I see my curves in the mirror, I tell myself: "How amazing am I ?! "

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